Thursday, March 17, 2005

What I’ve learned in LOVE lately….

It has always been said that sometimes the only person who can make us happy is the same person who can make us cry. But most of the time, we don't find this happiness because the person who made us cry doesn't love us at all. We all know that love has a way of painting the world around us with beautiful colors. It can make us see something that is not real, something that is not there at all. A person in love would often give more meaning to the actions of another person which he or she interprets as some form of caring or even a gesture of love.
But the thing is, when we are blindly in love, we really don't see the world around us at it is. We see it differently. Some people even build their own world of make-believe where they can live happily ever after. But the only "after" there can be is disillusionment.
It's hard to see the difference between love and friendship when it's love that we want so much. Holding on to the love you want is one of the most difficult things to do but sometimes the only way to prove our love for a person is to simply give him the freedom to choose who he wants to love, even if it may not be us. Let us always remember that the greatest challenge in this life is how to love unselfishly and make other people happy even if it means giving up our own happiness...

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